If you’re reading this article, chances are that you can’t really tell if the guy you want is interested in you.
Is he just being friendly? Is he flirting? Is he interested? What are men actually looking for in a woman they want to date?
The real answer has to dive deeper, into what men are actually looking for in a long-term partner (and short-term too!)
Take The Quiz: Does He Like You? Here’s a list of the 8 most important things guys look for in a woman (and note: this isn’t in a particular order).
Maybe it feels like you keep dating guys who aren’t that interested in you, and you’re looking for the answer of what will make him more passionate and “into” you The 8 Things Every Guy Looks For In A Woman
Maybe you feel like you don’t know why men are deeply attracted to some women and not to others. It could feel like you’re flying blind, and you don’t know how to get the guy you want interested in you.
1. He Wants To Be Deeply Attracted To You
I want to address this head on because I want to help you be as effective as possible: men want to be attracted to you and being attractive does have an impact on men.
I realize that some people might get angry when I say that, but I have to say it because I want you to be successful.
More importantly: there’s no reason to get angry… no matter who you are or what you look like this can be a huge opportunity for you.
This planet is filled with different kinds of men who all have different kinds of tastes and preferences for what they find attractive.
A big mistake that women make is that they try to become a certain image of attractiveness that may or may not be them, instead of the most attractive version of themselves.
When it comes to attraction, you don’t have to worry about people who aren’t attracted to you. Those people can be effectively invisible to you.
For the people who will be attracted to you, be the best and most attractive version of yourself that you can be.
Doing what you can to be the most attractive version of you possible is only going to increase your options, increase your power, and increase your effectiveness with attracting the person you ultimately want to attract.
So forget about the virtually unattainable standard that magazines and tv try to get you to hold yourself to. They’re only pushing that on you to get you to buy what they’re advertising.
If you’re feeling down about yourself, this is important to remember: women focus on the things they hate about how they look.
That’s a shame, because men focus on the things they like best about how a woman looks. He’s not looking at your worst features – he’s too focused on your best ones.
1. Put effort into your wardrobe and wear flattering clothing – clothing that makes you feel good and that you feel sexy in.
2. Focus on feeling good about yourself – a positive attitude is more important to overall attractiveness than a dress size or two.
3. Put effort towards being in shape and looking a way that makes you feel happy (not a way that some scummy magazine is telling you to look). This helps you feel great about yourself as well.
If you put effort towards those areas of your life, you will become the best and most attractive version of yourself that you can be – and that’s what the men who will be attracted to you really care about the most.