So here’s my issue… I’ve been talking to this guy for almost 2 months… We’ve had lunch once. He owns his own company. He travels almost weekly… and I’ve asked him to hang out multiple times… but hes always busy playing catch up. He tells me he likes me… and he is a super genuine guy…but when does he have time for me? He calls and texts me every day to let me know hes thinking about me…. He is literally everything I have looked for in a man… What do I do.
I had noticed a guy who kept looking my way so with the help of friends I decided to go on a see if really he is into me.Reality took it’s turn when we shared a text and all he said was he does not wana give me the wrong impression…worse feeling ever!since we work together he still smiles to greet whenever we pass on by…most awkward moment tho…life can be full of pretenses…
Srsly… Well it all depends or circumstances. I find at least half of you “signs”invalid in my situation. Well it seams girl I like cares nothing about me, and we are working together. And actually she is working directly with the boss so I could get in trouble really fast and easy. So I fight back any thoughts about romance and that means: 1) Not being around her as not to act weirdly. (Easy as she doesn’t come where I am) 2) Avoid speaking with her or pretends I don’t care remember/know/hear what she says even thought I do. (Its easy she actually doesn’t say anything) 3) I do my best to to show any jealously about other guys getting her attention. 4) Hmm this one’s true… I have srsly huge difficulties acting “normally” anything near her. I think she even commented quite loud that I’m acting strange. 5) Hell I’m curious about her life but that would be sure suicide and she doesn’t tell anything by herself. 6) Well I may actually mention other women as disguise. 7 and 9) Never ever… Well You can do that stuff when you are getting over unrequited love.
The bottom line is that all what is written here is valid if the GUY actually understands that you have feelings for him! If he thinks that you DO NOT CARE and the situation is such that risking and going for it would result bad things (workplace crush and so on) he may do everything in his power to force himself to forge you. And then he may actually act exactly like he doesn’t care. So for some shy girl reading this: a) at least show some subtle hints that he can go for it and has some chance. b) not every man doesn’t understand women’s “No”. Some actually respect it. So if you show him you want nothing with him for example avoid him, do not talk with him, run away from him, he may pick a hing between lines that you dislike/hate him or saw his low and want nothing to do with it. So be a little bit careful with what you do.
If you’re being constantly hit on by other men, and he doesn’t even flinch, this is an especially bad sign that he is not interested.
Mirroring even shows up in body language. When you’re talking with him, does his body language seem to match (or mirror) yours? Or does it seem like it’s the opposite of yours (such as him being turned away from him as you’re turned towards him). These body language signs of him not mirroring you can be a clue that he doesn’t like you.
Now, you can spend all your time and effort and energy trying to turn a bad employee into a good employee…
- When you change your style, or get a new haircut, he doesn’t seem to notice at all.
I meet this guy and later I started to have feelings for him. But I always told myself that he’ll never like a girl like me. We used to hardly see each other and I would try my best to make up excuses just to see him. But I felt like I was putting in alot of affect but in return getting zero.
Actually i sometimes think that he likes me because wherever i go he just follows me i mean to say that wherever i go he just comes behind me nd keeps on stairing me…i dont understand because he doesnt talks to me ….but he blushes when he sees me
You just have to spend more time with him. You can see if he is texting other girls . If he is, ask him if he loves you. Don’t hesitate to ask him. But he isn’t worth your time, you know what to do.
I’m too afraid of any relationships now because I’m afraid of being rejected
There’s this guy i really like. We met last year at a theater summer workshop. We became friends https://besthookupwebsites.org/lovoo-review/. I didnt realize i like him until the prod week of our professional show we started working on 2 months after our workshop ended. I thought he had feelings for me too cause of these silly signs: he usually needs me. he comes to me for help.. he asks me to fix his lapel on his hair, he was choking he asked for my water only (which i didnt have it then) but never asked our other friends who were sitting next to me, he asked me to fix his costume, carry his food, asks me if im okay, looks out for me if i have already preset my props , etc…. I told him right after our cast party, i sent him a message, but it was just a casual “i have a crush on you!” kinda thing. and he only said he was flattered… tho i thought he would say the same thing 🙁 and he said we will talk about it some time but never happened.
Especially if they LOVE you
He do tease me sometimes but do make me laugh and play together or talk to each other but last we used to do pretend as if we in love when others start to talk but i was falling for him and this year i cant cause he also does touche other sexy and booty girls, does he loves me or not