It’s easy to believe that anyone who messages you instantly is fake because – in my case at least – I hadn’t even uploaded any profile photos at this point or filled in my profile. And when you go to view a message, you’re taken to a page that says you need to upgrade your account in order to do that if you’re a man:
Worse than that, some messages are on a timer. If you don’t upgrade within an hour, the message will be automatically deleted and any chance you had of chatting to that person is gone:
I’m also very suspicious of a dating website that tells me there are lots of users online right now who are ‘less than 5 miles’ away from me:
At the same time, I don’t necessarily believe they are purposely flooding the dating site with such profiles. They have a verification process in place to keep questionable profiles out, and they also let you flag members you believe are fake. They will also send you messages to help you avoid spam profiles.
There are of course lots of real profiles on BeNaughty, too. The easiest way to find a real profile is to check their photos (you have to pay in order to see more than their profile pics) and take a look through http://www.hookupdate.net/spdate-review their photo gallery. If a user has more than one photo, and if their bio is filled out, it’s a clearer sign that this is a real person.
You should also look out for verified profiles. They are strict about how they verify and who they don’t. If a user is a verified profile, you can be 100% sure they’re genuine because it means the user called and spoke to them directly. This is something that certainly puts my mind at ease.
And if you’re unsure whether a person is real or not, you can request them to add more photos of themselves.
On the homepage, you’re met by pictures of singles or couples who are in your local area. You’ve also got your search tabs right in front of you, as well as a button for your inbox.
The best thing is that, despite its basic ethos, it doesn’t look cheap. The brand’s colors – mustard, red and white – go well together and the website is inviting, easy to use, and uncluttered. It’s impossible to get lost while using it.
To search, all you need to do is either click the ‘Search’ filter tab in the top left or flick through the three tabs under the fold – All Members, Online Now, or New Members. Alternatively, you can amend your search in the middle bar.
The design is set up to make life as easy as possible for you as you look for a hookup
Either way, it lets you get straight to the point: It’s here to help you find a hookup ASAP, which means there are zero distractions. Once you’ve completed the registration process, it’s literally time to get searching for a new sexual experience.
Sending and receiving messages is easy, too. All you need to do is click on a profile you like the look of, and click “Chat.”
This is a no-frills casual dating site that’s easy to navigate and use
A lot of dating services take a while to get used to, but they are so simple that you’ll get the hang of it in a few seconds. In the top right corner, you will also see how many unread messages you have, as well as how many overall updates you’ve got. Everything is literally just one click away.