If you contact an independent escort online you have the advantage of getting to know her personally through email and/or online chat. This is a safer way to do it because it allows you and the escort to get to know each other first. You might get a picture and be able to interact first and know what each other likes. That way when she shows up she’s not a “total stranger”. And – if she knows you and what you like – she’s going to be more prepared to show you a good time. So – if you want to be whipped – she’ll have her cat of nine tails with her.
There’s less law enforcement online and its not real different than dating
Its safer for them because they would rather know you more than to show up and fuck whoever opens the door. Its well worth exploring the online services especially if you are new to this. If you’re a cyber virgin – there’s a lot of fun things you can do online that will prepare you for your sexual experience. Writing hot email is great foreplay and its easier to get very sexual while you are still anonymous.
Here’s an example of how this works: I was visiting in San Jose, California, and I called a service there. They asked me what I was looking for. I said, “Well, this is California and I want the California experience. I want a woman who represents what the Beach Boys are singing about in the song, ‘I wish they all could be California Girls’.” The woman understood exactly what I was talking about and sent me this pretty little brunette who called herself “Mindy” — and she was just what I wanted. Mindy was one hot little woman who really enjoyed her work and we both had a great time. Years later – even after she got out of the business I can to San Jose again and she still wanted to see me. And if I hadn’t asked for what I wanted – I might not have met her. So don’t be shy about letting the service know what you’re looking for and don’t be afraid to shop around until you get what you want.
One of the best way to find an escort is to get a friend who is into escorts to recommend and escort or 
an escort service.
Generally, the phone operator who takes the calls knows who’s available and will page the woman you pick. The escort will return the operator’s call and the agency will then call you back to confirm that she’s on her way.
Sometimes the woman you’ve chosen is not available. Don’t be surprised if the service calls you back and tells you that the one you picked didn’t answer her page. You might want to mention a second choice then, or try another service. This business is imperfect, so don’t expect the same reliability you get from your doctor. Independent escorts that you meet online have less problems with scheduling because they do their own scheduling. So they are more likely to show up when they are supposed to.
The best times to call escort services are from 5:00 PM till midnight. This is the hours that most of them are working and you get the best selection. Although many services are 24 hours, not that many are still working at 4:00 am and are often rather wore out by then. I like to call early in the evening because I like it “fresh”.